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How Can I Handle Parental Alienation?

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Parental alienation is a tactic that parents may use in an attempt to ruin the relationship that their child has with their other parent. They generally tell the child lies and misinformation about the other parent to convince them that they are a bad person. Depending on age, children can be easily influenced especially by someone they know and love. If you believe parental alienation is being used during your custody battle, it is crucial that you handle the situation swiftly and effectively to avoid significant damage to your child and relationship. Speak with a Union County child custody attorney for more information about your rights and options.

What Are Some Signs of Parental Alienation?

Recognizing the signs of parental alienation can help put an end to it faster and avoid long-term damage to your relationship with your child. Below are some common signs of manipulation.

  • The child begins criticizing and speaking negatively about one parent
  • The child refuses to spend time with one parent
  • The child shows no guilt or remorse about their behavior
  • The language or ideals used are mature for the child’s age and point towards influence from an adult
  • The child rejects their extended family on one parent’s side
  • The child begins making claims that are untrue but they believe to be fact

If any of the above begins during your custody battle there is a good chance that your child is being manipulated and influenced by their other parent.

How Can I Handle Parental Alienation?

If you believe your child’s other parent is implementing parental alienation techniques, the first thing you should do is begin collecting evidence. This manipulation tactic is not allowed and courts do not take kindly to its use. Document all incidents that make you believe your child is being estranged including their behavior, the things they say, incidents where the other parent denies you access to the child, and more.

Next, work with your attorney to organize and present the evidence to the court. With the right documentation, the court could penalize the other parent for deliberately preventing you from spending time with your child. They may also deem it necessary to revisit the parenting schedule and alter custody arrangements based on the manipulation.

You may consider mediation between yourself and your child’s other parent. Communicating effectively can be difficult, especially during a highly contentious time but it is important for the well-being of your child. Express your concerns either on your own or through mediation and try to come up with a solution that prioritizes your child over all else.

Can Alienation Be Reversed?

It can be a scary feeling to realize that your own child is being turned against you but know that there are ways to undo the damage. Counseling and therapy have been proven effective in reversing the effects of the manipulation. It will likely take time and a lot of patience on your part, depending on how severe the alienation is.

If you believe your child’s other parent is purposefully alienating them from you, do not hesitate to contact an experienced attorney for legal advice and representation.

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