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How Can I Divorce my Spouse Without Conflict in New Jersey?

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How Can I Divorce my Spouse Without Conflict in New Jersey?

When marriages do not end on good terms, spouses tend to believe that it will be impossible to complete the proceedings without hostility or conflict. However, it is important to know that there are actually a variety of ways that either party can work to de-escalate these issues throughout the proceedings. It can benefit spouses in any divorce case to learn how to do so, as it can only improve the outcome of the divorce. This is especially so if there are children in the picture. Continue reading below to learn more and retain the services of an experienced New Jersey divorce attorney for help with your case.

How Can I Go Through a Non-Hostile Divorce?

While it is not easy, it is possible to divorce a spouse with as little conflict as possible. It takes commitment and a certain set of skills to learn how to get through disagreements with a person you have bad blood with. The following are a variety of critical tools that can be used throughout a divorce in order to keep conflict to a minimum: 

  • Practice radical acceptance. Angry emotions can bubble to the surface when you refuse to accept the reality of the situation you are in. By accepting the divorce, you can put your energy towards making the best decisions for yourself. 
  • Be a flexible thinker. There are many outcomes to a divorce. By expecting only one, it can harm the proceedings. It is important to be open to different options and compromise with your spouse to avoid causing further conflict.
  • Manage your emotions. There are many heightened emotions in a divorce that can cause additional problems when trying to deal with your spouse. It is because of this that you need to develop healthy coping mechanisms to manage these so they do not come out throughout the proceedings. 
  • Communicate effectively. Effective communication strategies when speaking with your spouse can prove to be beneficial for all individuals included. It is important to leave feelings out of your discussions and speak concisely. 
  • Do not care about what your former spouse thinks. It is understandable to feel misunderstood or disrespected when a marriage ends. However, do not allow these feelings to control your life. Instead, remove yourself from this thought process so that they do not impact your proceedings. 
  • Focus on your behavior only. Being in control of your emotions and actions instead of worrying about those of your spouse can allow you to minimize conflict. 

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– Nestor –

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– Clarissa –

“Robyn Ross handled my two cases and won both, her passion and expertise was beyond a 5-star rating. She communicated with me through both cases...”

– Abdul –

“Liz represented me throughout a long and difficult divorce process. She was a godsend. Her knowledge, compassion, dedication, and commitment are unparalleled. I can not...”

– Peter –

“The hardest part of going through a divorce or separation is the children. I’m so thankful that I had this firm represent my case. Ross...”

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